I thought this was a great idea for teaching fruits of the spirit. Smokity Frocks uses a picture of a grape with the "fruits" on it. When her kids show patience, self control, peace, love, joy......the kids are able to put a gold sticker on their chart. If they see a sibling showing one of these traits, they get to put a colored star on the siblings chart. Take a look! Smokity Frocks - Fruit of the Spirit.
Our family has been pretty grumpy and down right selfish lately, so we are going to tackle this!